Questions About Vibrators? Consider Them Answered — We Asked The Experts

Bullet vibes are a great option for anyone starting to dip into the world of sex toys. They’re small, discreet, and not intimidating, making them great to experiment with. “If it’s your first, I would start with a bullet,” Fleming says. They’re primarily used for clitoral stimulation, but sex educator Marla Renee Stewart, M.A., adds that you can use a bullet vibrator around other parts of your body, too, to start getting used to the sensation.

Stewart notes that sometimes clitoral size is an indicator of what kind of vibrator you may like: “If you have a smaller clitoris, you may enjoy more bullet-type vibes,” she says, and if you have a larger clitoris, “you may want to try a suction/air pulse vibe.” Of course, you can definitely try both, too, if you want! Again, because bullets are nice and small, you can incorporate them into everything from solo play to intercourse, experimenting with different settings and speeds.

How to use a bullet vibrator: Once you’re already sufficiently turned on, apply some lube to both your clit and the bullet. Play with the different settings, preferably starting off slow, and apply pressure to the clit. From there, experiment with different motions that feel good, and definitely consider using it on other areas as well, such as around the vulva, to find any other unsuspecting sweet spots.